Few tips on self improvement

 

There is no doubt in this topic that most of us wants to see progress in ourselves because most of us want to do better in our field , live happy and peaceful life with our dear people  , don't want to hurt anyone intentionally because of us and want to fulfill our responsibilities and dreams .  These are some reasons behind our concern for our self improvement . I am also becoming so concern about it and working for it consistently . Here are some tips that have  been helpful to me in my self improvement journey. 

1. Change your thinking towards your life

Nobody's life is perfect . All of us have some problems in our life and our family . But it does not mean that we are unlucky because Lord has given some blessings also in everyone's life. So instead of comparing your life with others , start counting your blessings and be grateful to Lord for that each day . Compare yourself from your past version i.e you only. Never think this that nobody's problems are bigger than my problems in this world . When you will keep this type of thinking , it will become very difficult for you to come out from trap of disappointment and look for the solutions of your problem . Instead of this affirm that by God's blessing and guidance you can deal with your problems properly without hurting yourself by your negative thoughts . Look at each day as an opportunity that if utilized properly by you then it would give you satisfaction and happiness . Sometime it may increase your confidence as well. 😊 

2. Believe in yourself 

When you repeat this statement in your conscious mind that you cannot improve in this thing, you cannot improve in that thing no matter how hard you try then your subconscious mind accept it . Then it make sure that you fail to utilize your abilities well for your self improvement . So instead of this start encouraging yourself each moment in your self improvement journey and  affirm that-"  By God's blessings , guidance that I am getting from others , my will and my efforts I can become better version of myself . Yes it is possible. Come on lets work for it ." My dear readers it will take sometime to improve your habits, thinking , behavior etc but when you will start believing in yourself that you can improve  then you won't find it difficult task and you won't make any excuses also for it .

3. Do introspection daily 

Take out sometime from your busy schedule and look into yourself . Sit quietly for some moment at any time that suites you and think about why you are behaving in particular way , why you say so and till where it is right . Then if you get this answer that whatever you said or you did is not good then think about how you can improve it . Sometime you might need others guidance in this case . Its not a bad idea. We need each other help to grow well . 

The good thing is that you have accept your fault and you want to improve in this case. Don't do self criticism at this moment . Please handle this situation calmly and try to understand yourself.Some people take this thing very lightly , they don't introspect at all and they always keep them busy in thinking about reason behind others behavior , .words and actions , Due to which they fail to know actually where they stand in their life , what mistakes they are doing , how they are hurting others and themselves.

4. Start taking your responsibilities

 

"Being responsible to yourself" means managing to fulfill your commitment by hook or by cook . When you commit to yourself that I will complete this work till here today then stick to it and make sure you fulfill it at the same day without making excuses. Taking this step is important for your self improvement because if you never fulfill your own commitment then how can you accept that you will fulfill those responsibilities properly that other people may assign to you . 

 All successful people whom we know have always been loyal to themselves and fulfill their commitment .Make sure you utilize your time properly and you don't start relaxing too much which leads to neglecting your responsibilities towards your health , your goal , your family , your studies ,so on and regret in future. Be grateful to  your parents , teachers , friends and other people who have done so much for you , whenever they ask you to help them in some thing when you are busy in something else that time you don't have to show your anger to express your irritation every time. I mean to say that please don't take your responsibilities as a burden instead of that fulfill it happily whenever it is possible for you and if you can't take that responsibility due to any reason then say no to other people politely.😊 

5. Be clear about purpose and  goals of your life 

God has given life to all of us in the form of human being for some purpose . Having goals in life helps you to stay focus and it shows direction in your life.  It takes time to know what is your exact purpose and goals in your life . But one thing I must say you my dear readers , please don't get offended after listening to this . When you are hardworking and determining that time having big dreams are good only . But don't try to escape from reality always and set unrealistic goals . For example - 1st year college students like me ,  my classmates and other students have to keep their home condition , their abilities , interest , what will happen in future if I choose this subject , course and field for me everything in consideration while taking career related decisions.

When we are not so clear about our goals , we end up giving so much time to relaxation and unproductive things . So lets begin to bring some maturity in ourselves , know about ourselves in better way so that we can set our goals clearly. Write your goals and some quotations in piece of paper and have a look it daily .In order to know about purpose of your life along with showing maturity , ask yourself this thing - what I can do for society by all abilities and skills that I posses and what I can do for my family .👍 

Before concluding my blog I would like to say " All the best" to all of my readers for their self improvement journey . May God bless you and guide you all throughout your journey . Thank you for giving your precious time and reading my blog . I hope you will imply these tips for your welfare.👱