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How to control our emotions?

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The way we look at different situations of our life and deal with it determines our emotions in different situations of our life. In other words we can say that  our thoughts and actions are like seeds and our emotions are like crops that are grown in our subconscious mind when we nourish  that seeds well. So when you choose your thoughts in different situations of your life (good or bad situation) , you choose your emotions accordingly . But do we have thoughts regarding all incidents and all people of our life ? Do we care about all incidents and people ? The answer is- no . We often ignore some of them therefore we don't have any emotions for them . Our outer environment is not same always . Sometime it is like a sweet and sometime it is like a sour lemon. But if we know how to handle our inner environment that is responsible for our emotions . Then initially we might get stuck in trap of our emotions as we all are humans but we will be successful to come out of it as soon as po

How to control your mind ?

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Our mind is very powerful tool . The thoughts that we feed in  our mind controls our feelings , emotions and actions . Your mind can be either your true friend who guides you , helps you to maintain discipline , helps you to take correct decisions, helps you to focus and encourages you by setting this belief in you that you can achieve particular goal that you really want from heart . Or your mind can be your enemy who  does not allow you to focus at your goal , always ask you to go behind those things that has no  relation with your goals , does not allow you to try again in better way due to fear and when you  don't have any control on your mind , at times for  some days  , weeks or months you don't even realize that whether whatever activities that you are doing regularly are harmful for you or useful for you in some ways. Due to this reason only all of us fail to use our time properly sometime. Your mind will act like your true friend or enemy , this thing depends upon the

There is no success without failure

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All of us want to become successful in our life. None of us want to experience failure in our journey because it hurt us so much emotionally whenever we experience it unfortunately in our journey. Before reaching to my high senior secondary school ( class 11 and class 12) I  too had so much fear of failure . My dear readers I used used to think about failure in this way earlier - " What if I fall down badly in my journey and I have to restart my journey in any field properly from starting point to reach my destination? How I shall manage? Will I be able to take care of myself that time or my journey will stop there only due to my failure? ... "  But my dear readers my class 11 and class 12 experience changed my outlook towards failure. I had deal with my   fear of failure strongly in these classes. Initially it was not easy for me to accept my failure as I was not able to realize what was my mistakes and how could I rise again and start moving ahead for my goals . This thin

Our life and relations are based on trust

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Trust is a basic requirement of our life. The presence of trust in any relation makes the particular relation stronger. Due to this trust only we are able to share our thoughts , feelings and emotions with our dear people confidently as our trust make us think for our dear people in this way - ' They will understand me , guide me , not make fun of me and not share my thoughts with everybody. '  We  feel  connected  with each other and we can learn what we really want from each other due to trust that we do to each other . In serious condition also some patients don't lose their hope because they trust God, their respective doctor , their medicines and their family who are looking after them in best way that is possible. This trust only help these patients to remain strong when they were not well at all and then it also help them to recover as soon as possible .  Trust in  parent and child relationship is present since child's birth only by God's blessing . Due to t