Expectations

Hello my dear readers 😇

 How all of you are doing well  in your life ? I hope everything is going well in your life due to your sincere efforts and God's blessings . After a long gap I could spare sometime fortunately today in order to communicate with all of you . So today I would like to  share with you about my opinions about expectations that we have from ourselves and others through this blog .

Right from the day we were there in our mom's stomach we started having expectations .However that time it was limited , from our mom only  and it never harmed us at period of time .  As we grew up , got chance to learn more about ourselves ,our surrounding and  people around us , our expectations from ourselves and others keeps on increasing with respect to time . 

Having some expectations with ourselves is very important because it help us to remain focus , set daily targets ,goals . maintaining  self discipline  in all situations and maintaining self control in expressing our emotions in all phases of our life . On other hand some expectations that  we have from others indicates that we trust them . So having some  expectations is never bad for us but excess expectations be it from anybody or anything always give us disappointment  at the end because things don't  not go based upon our expectation every time , that's life all about .

Our expectations should be based upon reality . For staying happy , we often tend to escape from our reality and engage ourselves in different activities in our day to day life but when we are setting any expectations from ourselves or from others , we need to face reality strongly in this case anyhow . So that we don't set those expectations that will remain unfulfilled due to some circumstances of our life . We need to take help of our maturity and elder's guidance also in this case .

Excess and wrong expectations from others always lead to misunderstanding and fight in relationship . So in order to know how to set correct expectations from others , we need to firstly understand ourselves as well along with understanding others . Since no human being is perfect and it's very difficult for us and anyone to fulfill all expectations of others , so we should know how to handle this situation calmly by taking help of politeness and forgiveness . It will make our relations better . 

Self expectations that we set for achieving goals also plays very important role in life . According to my experience I can say that when we are not allowing those expectations to become our master , our main focus is learning more and giving our best in our field , that time those expectations acts like fuel for us when we feel lazy or feel like giving up . However when those self expectations becomes too high and tend to act like our master , that time it ask to do crazy things and work hard beyond our limit that lead to health issues ,negative output and disappointment  at the end .   So let's make sure that due to any of our expectations , any of our relations does not suffer and due to any of other's or self high expectations , it  does not hamper our growth negatively . Just believe in yourself . do wrong things to none , keep learning , improving and giving your best always , that's all .

Thank you for giving your valuable time and reading my blog . Hope it helped you in some ways . Eagerly waiting for your honest feedback . Take care .👍