Relations are our precious gift

 Hello my dear readers ,

I hope all of you are taking care of yourself and your dear people as situation is not good around us . Stay safe , positive and keep giving your best in everything you all do .😊 Today I would like to  communicate with my dear readers  about significance of relations (in general ) in our life , how they are our strength and weakness , how today's social media world has affected it and few  things that I learnt from my experience about it  through this blog . So       began - 

Right from the day we were in our mother's stomach we started making different relations . The first relation that every person has made before taking birth in this world - is with his / her mom . At that time when we were about to born , this sensitive and sweet relationship between us and our mom was also one factor that kept us and our mom protected and happy . At times when we were not okay or our mom was upset due to some reason that  time , it affected both of us in negative way . Even today our happiness lies in each other happiness & we feel helpless , bad and get emotional  at times when we fail to solve each other problem's , that time this beautiful relationship between us and our mom seems to be our  weakness  to us . When we encourage , stood for , take care of , protected and help each other that time this relationship seems to be our biggest strength that we don't want to lose .😇

After taking birth we made first relation with our dad , secondly with other family members  followed by many other people  in our surrounding . Mostly all of them showered their love and blessings upon us that time so that we feel save in this world and grow well. Since all of us were very innocent especially during childhood days so that time we used to feel that everyone who speaks sweet words  in front of us and call our name politely most of time loves us so much . But later on as we grew up into adult , we came to know about this bitter truth of this world that some   people  behaves in different way ,  speak something else or in other way  to us and have some other bad  intention in their mind which disappointed us so much. We have  no option except accepting this harsh reality of our world  and be careful and responsible  while   making new relations with anybody .

However good thing is that all relations that we make in this world does not end in this bitter or wrong way so we don't need to feel lonely here  . Rather some relations stay  strong lifetime with us such as brother - sister , parent - child , few best friends , teacher - student etc relations  . They    inspire us to do better in everything we do in our life  for our people and us  , give courage , guidance , security and happiness  to us always.  At times we mistakenly take wrong decisions or do something wrong because of concern and fear that arises due to our sweet relations with our people.  At times going or shifting far from our people and then perform our work properly seems to be very difficult for us initially because our body is somewhere else but our mind is still with our people only .   So we can say without any doubt that our relations are not only our biggest strength but it is also one of our weakness.

Anyway without these relations that we have make in life so far , we can't even imagine our life . Our life becomes very difficult when unfortunately we lose someone due to his or her death  or break any of the relations that we have made with people so far . In today's world where social media such as Whatsapp , Facebook , Instagram etc  are at trend and mostly everybody use it according to their convenience, need and interest  , it has affected our relations in both positive and negative way . Let me explain how.

The positive affect that we can observe in our life due to invention of  social media are that it helped us in  connecting  ourselves with our people anytime and anywhere and  keeping ourselves update about our dear people's  birthday , anniversary , achievement , other days and sadness  that they post  . 

The negative affect  that we can observe in our life due to excess and wrong  use of social media are we have very less  time for each other because sometimes everyone in a room become so   busy in  using social media as a result we forget to give some quality time to our people who are sitting beside  us , we have started relying on messages so much as a result we forget  to call our people or go and meet them face to face  during occassions and difficult times & ask them how are they doing in life & if they need any help, some people misunderstand or write rude comments or messages  and some people started showing jealousy  &  comparison after seeing their post. All these small - small things leaves  a wound in our  heart and affect our relations in negative way. If trust get break or there is absence of security ,true  love and respect in  any relation then it can end anytime or it won't stay smooth.

From my experience I learnt these things about relations  that we should fulfill all  relations from true heart , if we really care for any relation then we need to express it in our words and more in actions , keeping it in mind only won't work, we should try each day to take out atleast some  time for our parents and other people who matters to us , we should fulfill our duties  that we have due to any relation selflessly , happily and take care of words we speak & other's trust . We should emphasize on others positive qualities more than their negative qualities and make sure that we don't get upset for small - small faults of each other for long time .

Along with other relations that we have make in this world, we also have a beautiful relationship with our inner self . It's important for us to not forget about it , respect it , be loyal to ourselves  but  do not emphasis this relationship so much that leads to darkness and bitterness in other relations.😊🌈 

So I am stopping here for now. It is lengthy but topic is very sensitive .I hope you enjoyed reading it and lessons that I shared in last paragraph will be useful for all of you. Thank you for giving your precious time , reading my blog and helping me to improve. 😊 I would be eagerly waiting for your honest and valuable response.