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 Don't you think that you are so special ? Don't you deserve that attention , that time , that care , that trust from you that you have always  given to people around you only ?  My dear readers you deserve love , respect , care , to be understood and to be trusted not only by people around you but also by very special person i.e you . A person who does not love , respect and trust himself or herself could not expect others to give love ,   respect and faith to him or her .  You will meet many people in your life . Some of them will   have bad thoughts about you where as some people will have good thoughts about you in their mind . Accordingly people will treat you . But I believe that what you think about yourself and how you behave with yourself matters a lot than what your dear people and other people do to you . Do you agree with me ? Practicing self love doesn't mean that you start behaving like selfish person who is always hated by Lord and ...

  Throughout the year we all had been   trying our best to keep ourselves continuously busy  in some work , taking care of our and each other's health , taking precaution as situation was not good in the world as you know , trying to become strength of each other in tough time and praying for each other .  I believe along with pushing ourselves to move in forward direction of our life sooner or later , at times we should take out some time from our busy schedule   and reflect back upon our past to know exactly  where we stand at present moment , what progress we have made , what mistakes we did , what changes we have brought in our behavior and thinking and so on . If we never take out time to sit quietly and do self reflection seriously then it will affect our self development in all dimension and sadly we would be repeating our some mistakes again and again due to which we will start doubting on our ability to become better version of ourselves....

 There is no doubt in saying this that we all had very different  experience this year . We experienced those things this year about which none of us had ever imagine in our dream also.  I can't  say that only bad things happened in our life this year because that is not truth my dear readers. But whatever bad things we experienced this year about which I will be talking in little detail in this article has affected everybody's  life so much.  Many families lost their loved one in this pandemic. Many families  suffered a lot when any of their family member , relatives or any of their dear people got infected by Covid-19  symptoms.  Many families is  staying  far from those  member of their family who is working as one of covid-19  warrior from a very long time . Before existence of this disease , there wasn't less distance in our relations . In other words I can say that before existence of this disease also many people mi...

  When any student enters  college after completing his or her school life that time initially it is not easy job for any student to adjust in a new environment of their college , to get close with new teachers , friends and classmate. All students need some time to get used to this new environment . College life is very different from school life . How we can say that ? The answer is when we all were in school , we all had less responsibilities , we all were less concern about our ambition and purpose of life , some students remain unaware about their ambition and purpose of life when they were in school and we used to get many  things  ready made  due to our teacher's efforts in school . But when you enter in college you can find some changes will take place around you , you will start becoming more  concern about your responsibilities  , ambition and purpose of your life , you will meet new people , learn new things from them , develop your skills a...

  There is no doubt in this topic that most of us wants to see progress in ourselves because most of us want to do better in our field , live happy and peaceful life with our dear people  , don't want to hurt anyone intentionally because of us and want to fulfill our responsibilities and dreams .  These are some reasons behind our concern for our self improvement . I am also becoming so concern about it and working for it consistently . Here are some tips that have  been helpful to me in my self improvement journey.  1. Change your thinking towards your life Nobody's life is perfect . All of us have some problems in our life and our family . But it does not mean that we are unlucky because Lord has given some blessings also in everyone's life. So instead of comparing your life with others , start counting your blessings and be grateful to Lord for that each day . Compare yourself from your past version i.e you only. Never think this that nobody's problems a...

The way we look at different situations of our life and deal with it determines our emotions in different situations of our life. In other words we can say that  our thoughts and actions are like seeds and our emotions are like crops that are grown in our subconscious mind when we nourish  that seeds well. So when you choose your thoughts in different situations of your life (good or bad situation) , you choose your emotions accordingly . But do we have thoughts regarding all incidents and all people of our life ? Do we care about all incidents and people ? The answer is- no . We often ignore some of them therefore we don't have any emotions for them . Our outer environment is not same always . Sometime it is like a sweet and sometime it is like a sour lemon. But if we know how to handle our inner environment that is responsible for our emotions . Then initially we might get stuck in trap of our emotions as we all are humans but we will be successful to come out of it as soon ...

Our mind is very powerful tool . The thoughts that we feed in  our mind controls our feelings , emotions and actions . Your mind can be either your true friend who guides you , helps you to maintain discipline , helps you to take correct decisions, helps you to focus and encourages you by setting this belief in you that you can achieve particular goal that you really want from heart . Or your mind can be your enemy who  does not allow you to focus at your goal , always ask you to go behind those things that has no  relation with your goals , does not allow you to try again in better way due to fear and when you  don't have any control on your mind , at times for  some days  , weeks or months you don't even realize that whether whatever activities that you are doing regularly are harmful for you or useful for you in some ways. Due to this reason only all of us fail to use our time properly sometime. Your mind will act like your true friend or enemy , this th...